After writing the “Chores Shmores” post, I heard from a number of parents asking whether or not “Pets” should be included in a chore list: (This post was originally written in 2016 and updated in 2022) Why didn’t you mention “Taking Care of Pets” as a chore in the examples you gave? Wouldn’t that count […]
Keeping Memorial Day Meaningful
Dear Dr. Renee,I have young children and want to celebrate Memorial Day in a meaningful way. We don’t have anyone in our family who has served in the military or made that ultimate sacrifice. How can I observe this holiday with young children?-Rosie Dear Rosie, Thank you for wanting to teach your children what Memorial […]
Building Positive Sibling Relationships
Dear Dr. Renee,We just moved to a new state and my children are getting along great. I’m sure it is because they don’t have anyone else to play with right now. How do I keep this positive sibling relationship going after we all make new friends and get busy again?-Elaine Dear Elaine, Congratulations to you […]
I Had It First!
Dear Dr. Renee,My kids are constantly battling over who “had it first!” This happens with each other and also with their friends. I am always rushing in to negotiate and make things right. How do I get them to take turns without needing me to jump in?-Cheryl Dear Cheryl,It is a parental reflex to want […]
Stopping Sibling Spats
Dear Dr. Renee,I can’t handle the fighting! My kids argue over everything and over even the littlest things. Please help me make this stop!Sick of Sibling Spats, Monica(mom of three: 5, 8, 10 years old) Dear Monica,You sound exhausted! Fortunately, it does not seem like the fighting you describe is cruel or intending harm. No […]
Community Service Conundrum with Young Children
Dear Dr. Renee,I want to get my child involved in community service but there is nothing around here that is available for young children. Most organizations want volunteers 16 years and older. What do you suggest?-Robyn Dear Robyn,Congratulations on getting your child involved in community service! This is a passion of mine. Volunteering is one […]